Here are the options I have come up with so far.
This, with the non ruffly jacket, and one floor length ruffle instead of the three, with a separate top to wear under the jacket. I like this top a lot, but I'm not sure it would work with the skirt: I could fairly easily join the top and skirt to make it into a dress, which I would probably be more comfortable in.
This dress and this coat . Again, I'm not sure those go together, but I think they would be fine in the right fabrics.
I think I want to buy these two patterns,http://www.voguepatterns.com/i